Thread: Integration *sigh*

someone suggested on a separate post, rubbing both of them with powder (I guess that would be talcum powder) and trying to reintroduce them
don't stress, don't fret, that's the worst thing you can do I think - I made the same mistake when I had to leave mine to the cattery for 3 weeks, I was so stressed, I continuously talked to her, assuring her that she needn't worry, I would be back, she'll have fun - while at the same time a knot in my stomach was telling me "noooo it won't be fine, how can my baby be fine without me for 3 weeks" - I think she picked up on my anxiety, because she was so anxious when we arrived, she behaved so agressively, that the owner ended up calling us back and asking us to take her back. I see no other explanation than me being so overly anxious that I passed it on to her...
So - relax, plug Feliway, if you can give her a bath I would do that (since she's a moggie though she might not like it so much) it will neutralise her scent a bit and also get rid of some of the molting - and if not then try the talcum powder trick? may be see if you can find something that's fitting for cats? after you did theat - give him her blanket for a couple of hours so her scent is on him... and let them get used to each other.
I believe that cats are great comedians - they know what button to push to get you where they want you. I believe that if you ignore her bad behaviour she'll get over it.... If you have to do some crying, or stress a bit, just lock them up each in their room and you just go in your own so it doesn't impact them, and leave them with Feliway....
where are you based?