Thread: Not very affectionate

I agree with Alekto, they all have their own personalities. My girl Ginger, is just a year old and spayed. She has always been a very affectionate kitten. She was raised around small children who handled her quite a bit when she was very young. She loves to cuddle me, but only on her terms. If she comes to me for cuddles, all's good. If I seek her out and pick her up, she will struggle to get down and walk or run away. They are definitely their own cats. So give the little guy some time. Male cats are generally more laid back then females. I think he will come around.