Thread: Help! Urinating/defecating inappropriately when we are away

so I started writing a long response earlier, that I was very proud of, and then someone called me, my computer crashed and I lost it all! darn!

first about the peeing : is he by any chance having a tantrum? he sees what works to get you rattled and voila.... ? I am thinking of asking a vet for a specialist of cat behaviour for Neevie - at the moment she's lovely but she goes through phases...

Feliway has worked wonders with her though - hope it works for you - you have to wait about 2 or 3 weeks before it starts having an effect, it's not immediate.

also, about the yowling - does it sound like he may be in pain? like, constipated? or the reverse? or having problem passing water? may be it burns? may be that's what throws him? you know, the same way if it hurts every time you eat something, you might take a dislike to that perticular food?