Thread: Going to look at an MC some advice

very excited for you ... would agree to 'go with the flow'

Well she is home bit of crying in the car, she still in her carrier it's open so I am sure she will come out when ready, her food etc is down as well

Well so far we have gone from the carrier to under the kitchen cupboards to under the table and now behind the sofa, I assume this is all normal, but worried about leaving her behind the sofa all night, should I try and pull her out?

I'd suggest letting her just come out all on her own. I doubt she'll be behind the sofa all night. The curiosity of any cat will get the better of it and she will be out and exploring in no time.

Oh I am sure she will be, just not keen on leaving her behind the sofa when goto bed, would prefer she was in the kitchen over night

Well if you have some time to give her to adjust before bed I'd give it to her, let her have the chance to come out on her own, or coax her out, instead of pulling her out, and set her up in the kitchen for the over night. And I totally forgot to say before congrats on the new addition

I'd sit with her for a while on the floor next to the sofa, talk to her, try to pet her. And then go to bed, leave bedroom door open.

Are you worried she might not find her kitty box? If you are, I would move it near the sofa. I agree with Firedrake and Antonia and would not pull her out if possible. Much better to let her come out on her own. I would probably just sleep on the sofa!!!

Just caught up on thread do hope she has decided to appear by now.....?